Carl Ransom Rogers quotes
1902 – 1987 · 20th century, United States · Psychologist, psychotherapist, author and educator
About Carl Ransom Rogers
Born 1902 in Oak Park, Illinois; died 1987 in La Jolla, California. Trained at Columbia, Rogers argued that growth depends on a facilitative relationship characterized by empathy, congruence and unconditional positive regard. His work reshaped psychotherapy, counseling, education and conflict resolution and advanced empirical study of therapy via recorded sessions.
Works: The Clinical Treatment of the Problem Child; Client-Centered Therapy; On Becoming a Person; A Way of Being
Quotes
“When the other person is hurting, confused, troubled, anxious, alienated, terrified; or when he or she is doubtful of self-worth, uncertain as to identity, then understanding is called for. The gentle and sensitive companionship of an empathic stance… provides illumination and healing. In such situations deep understanding is, I believe, the most precious gift one can give to another.”
Source: A Way of Being, pp. 160–161 (1980) · Check the source
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- The passage appears in Rogers’s essay “Empathic: An Unappreciated Way of Being,” published in A Way of Being; located around pp. 160–161.
Rogers argues that deep understanding itself can be healing: when someone is frightened, confused or doubting their worth, what helps most is another person’s accurate, nonjudgmental presence. The passage comes from his late essay on empathy and frames listening as an active, restorative stance rather than mere sympathy.